Just to get a few facts,
Are you not happy with your overall lay volume and/or quality? is that why the high-flake rate is bothering you? or are you just figuring out the process behind the flaking?
What are your looks like?
What type of girls are you going for?
An immediate tip I can pass on is once you have that initial sex talk, slowly switch to some “romantic sexy” talk to your interaction.
“can’t wait to have you in my arms baby” type of talk …I know it’s cheesy as hell but it gives things a more emotional dimension.
So you are alternating between that and the hardcore stuff.
But I would veer towards the romantic-sexy talk leading up to the hook-up.
I know right? Coulda been worse though - did you know the studios wanted Will Smith as Neo. Imagine if he had taken the part.
Carie Ann Moss was seriously miscast. Such a spectacular role handed to a woman like her? Dreadful.