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  1. Depends on my mood how I'd react to that Often...

    Depends on my mood how I'd react to that

    Often times though, IF you persist, the girl will cool down at some point and gravitate back over to the guy.
    So I don't think you missed out on anything...
  2. Yeah, Typically I just highlight a girl with...

    Yeah,
    Typically I just highlight a girl with tension, or gesture to her to get her to notice me,
    People use tension when they point to things, wave to get attention, or puff up their body to direct...
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    [QUOTE=SargeMaximus;182777]Yes, exactly. style...

    I'm sure teevs has a point when he says that rapport isn't necessary
    I merely think of rapport as a way of initiating mutual escalation or mirroring though
    Initial mirroring from the girl is...
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    I swung back and forth on this Initially I did...

    I swung back and forth on this
    Initially I did it, I intimidated a few girls cuz it was a bit much for them, went out after work looking crappy one night and got loads of attention with my inside...
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    Well, I'm only going to add here my view of it, I...

    Well, I'm only going to add here my view of it, I don't want anyone thinking I'm laying down how it only goes down.

    It develops from a "roll over" of interest (one person's interest turns into...
  6. Yeah, I don't think you would have an issue, I...

    Yeah, I don't think you would have an issue,
    I like hangman's advice about playing around with it to not look too eager, then taking her up on it
  7. Nah, she didn't, not exactly She communicates...

    Nah, she didn't, not exactly
    She communicates she knows how to do casual
    BUT

    I mean she WOULD go for sex, easy peasy, if he could game past her little tests
    But the harsher reality is its more...
  8. Ooh... You are kinda getting schooled by her,...

    Ooh...
    You are kinda getting schooled by her, which is going to make her more, disappointable
    But shes giving you a lot of leeway
    *scratches head*

    On one hand shes setting up beta stuff, but...
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    Showing needs puts you in the position of being...

    Showing needs puts you in the position of being rejected
    And most guys want to feel superior from their armchair
    So... they say they don't need anything so they can judge others

    Why is this...
  10. Well you have tension which captivates the girl...

    Well you have tension which captivates the girl
    Your vibe is then what experience she shares in (amused, yawning, sensual to borrow from ijjjji)
    The veil (when I said it) is refering to peripheral...
  11. First level - intuition that things are going...

    First level - intuition that things are going well
    Second level - there is a "focusing" of attentions on each other
    Third level - this focusing causes her to lose connection with everything around...
  12. Thanks man Yeah, Just won't change...

    Thanks man

    Yeah,

    Just won't change anyone's life (well maybe a few people it might)
    I aim for it to just be an appetizer for more to come (its bigger than a snack though, its more like...
  13. Ok, I finished the last section I want to...

    Ok, I finished the last section

    I want to re-edit the whole thing a few times though
    And consider potential added content, and where to put it.

    Its so fucking tiring going through a whole book...
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    I think it is more what he AIMS for when he is...

    I think it is more what he AIMS for when he is serious about management
    But he'd also have a more passive approach too

    Obviously you can't actively be switched on at all times
    Its more something...
  15. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 76% Primal...

    == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
    76% Primal (Hunter)
    75% Dominant
    69% Non-monogamist
    62% Exhibitionist
    60% Switch
    57% Brat tamer
    57% Master/Mistress
    53% Degrader
    50% Primal (Prey)
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    Great post Thought I'd chime in on the sales...

    Great post
    Thought I'd chime in on the sales part

    You just need a technical structure to help you turn it into sales (its one of the rare places it can help)

    You start by eliciting their...
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    lover, husband, cute guy I'm sure they are...

    lover, husband, cute guy

    I'm sure they are roles

    So, you already listed it under single man imo
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    btw, I woulddn't trust pats on the back regarding...

    btw, I woulddn't trust pats on the back regarding this
    It is human nature to tend towards not giving a fuck about the consequences for another person
    Don't put your actions regarding it up to...
  19. Well I find my logical solutions ARE cut off from...

    Well I find my logical solutions ARE cut off from emotion
    But I don't embrace that too much cuz it leads towards entitlement mindsets
    So it is a tight rope walk, using logic, but not becoming...
  20. Affirmations are the logic brain trying to fight...

    Affirmations are the logic brain trying to fight off dissonance logically.
    I see it like a circle, or a snake eating its own tail. When you have nothing else to affect the world with you try to use...
  21. For me, I start from understanding that as a guy...

    For me, I start from understanding that as a guy I have more potential control of the outcome and thusly an even bigger pool of choice.
    I wouldn't accept that pic for myself, so I have to decline...
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    Ah, sorry it was a typo, it was meant to be...

    Ah, sorry it was a typo, it was meant to be expectation of normalcy.
    And that is a long story, but I'll try to make it short.

    As a teenager I'm thinking "man I want my hero story where I get the...
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    Additionally... There are two ways to be...

    Additionally...

    There are two ways to be emotional
    Lets just say for simplicity sake that one is blue pill and the other is redpill

    Bluepill emotional is you go to sappy movies with girls,...
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    I have to actively engage my emotions or I can be...

    I have to actively engage my emotions or I can be rather shit.
    I'd say you'd share some of that trait.
    It is not a fun trait...

    Why?
    It robs you of a lot more than you think.
    What is initially...
  25. "tell me something crazy interesting about ...

    "tell me something crazy interesting about yourself"
    Is a bit of a better way to spin it
    Um... but don't ask that kind of thing until you are in a comfortable conversational situation
    Usually,...
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