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100% Method for Meeting up with Girls
Part 1 - Why Plans Result in Cold Feet.
The inherent problem with planned events, is that during the period leading up to the event, there will be 'low' periods where future events are seen in a 'negative light' of worry or lack of enthusiasm. (Just think about a time when you were feeling worried, tired or just bored.) During such times, negative thoughts and worries tend to ACCUMULATE in regard to upcoming events. With longer time span, more such 'lows' will occur, potentially allowing multiple layers of negativity to accumulate. End result is often total loss of interest or even AVERSION.
In short, planning in advance will make any previous doubts FESTER & AMPLIFY, resulting in COLD FEET.
Conclusion: NEVER plan a first meet-up in advance.
Part 2 - How to Make Unplanned Meet-ups Happen.
-Avoid communicating entirely, until next friday/saturday night.
-Then text something like "Hi Im at bar X! You?"
-Converse (text or phone-call) with girl WITHOUT hinting for a meet. Just flirt! No asking about what she doing or what her plans are.
-The moment SHE HINTS for a meet, suggest meeting up 'right now'.
ij: "Heeey tiger u awake? Friday was fuun " (typically 11pm'ish on a sunday)
girl: "Yes? lol your name is sexyjiji?!?"
ij: "What?? you typo on your cell?? My name is ijjjji. Nice to meet you!"
ij: blabla (insert playfully busting her balls!!)
girl: flirty blabla. "Im watching series X. What u doing?"
ij: X is nice? I could watch with you but starving.. U have food?
(This method is much more effort, because sometimes you have to tease girls for days before they 'crack' like this. But it always happens sooner or later in my experience!)
(Digression: The fallacy of reverse engineering is evident for this subject. 'Good' (popular) guys report that they never have problems when planning a meeting. (Since the girl had NO DOUBT to begin with.) Consequently, they tend to SPAM the forums with the BAD ADVICE of scheduling meets, leading to an endless stream of frustrated posts from newbies who always get last minute cancel from girls. On average there are 2 new topics like this every week. Every time the same useless advice given. Possibly making this the most deeply rooted misunderstanding in all of seduction.)
(Scheduling meetups can actually be useful for weeding out lukewarm girls, in a situation where you have many girls lined up.. e.g. you could schedule 10 girls from online on the same day, and hope that 1 or 2 dont flake.. Be warned though: the reduction of interest still plays a role, so the girl could be lukewarm when you meet her, leaving you with more 'uphill struggle', compared to a spontaneous meeting..)