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    Kit I believe your theory may be wrong. I have heard rape often induces orgasm in women. Feel free to Google in order to verify.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picasso View Post
    Kit I believe your theory may be wrong. I have heard rape often induces orgasm in women. Feel free to Google in order to verify.


    what kind of orgasm however?

    there are orgasm and a real mindblowing orgasm and things in between in my eyes

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    I always feel a bit weird about rough sex. I like spitting in their mouths, light slapping her face, light choking, breath play, calling her names, etc. problem is most women tolerate it but when asked will tell me they don't really like it. A small fraction of the usually less hotter girls are into it. Occasionally one will even tell me to slap her. I met a weird one in China (was really from Chicago) who even had me make a video of it followed with her cum gobbling, saying thank you and I love you, getting slapped In return, and me laughing and snorting. She said she she needed it for when she fingered her pussy. Later she told me she showed it to her BF and he jacked off to it. She wasn't that attractive. I wish attractive women were the ones down for this shit.

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    image.jpgI read this thread on the train ride home from kobe today. What great inspiration! Was meeting a chick that I knew was dtf but was gonna give me some ASD and LMR. So I devices to implement a very forceful frame. She was like no no no and all this stuff and I just did what I want. Know what? When I held frame and slapped her around a bit she perked right up like oh fuck he's actually gonna do it. I pulled some crazy shit with this woman and even had her ready to miss the last train. I may have to replace the tatami mats. I told her I owned her pussy and was gonna whore her out. I slapped her, fucked her, wrote my name over her cunt in marker. She loved it. When she trie to resist I became even more rough and dominant and she fell right in line. Walking home I kinda felt bad after I drop her at station I see a Japanese guy publicly slapping his girl around in a crowded train station. Um I hate to say it but no often means yes and this chick came some many times in addition to squirting an insane amount of juice all over my bedding. And futon through to the tatami. She said hands down best sex and never had even squirted before. So yeah I'm not saying rape women. That's wrong. But as I said to her: you've obviously never fucked a real man who knows how to make a woman feel like a real woman!
    ps the pic is the guy slapping around his girl I the shinsaibashi station. No one gave a fuck. He was hitting her I the head like "stupid girl". Then she'd try to slink away and he'd push her back into the wall. Idk if this was a game they were playing so she could conveniently miss last train and have an excuse to get fucked or what?
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    T&M,
    if you get this feelin this girl will go beyond vanilla with you, like you explained
    you could time-out the sex a little bit at some point... discuss her comfort levels atm etc, how far she can go etc
    set up a safe word system (red; yellow; green)

    Kind of a meta conv during sex or after/before
    Especially when exploring around boundaries (with pain for instance), take a break sometimes so you are still playing on same team

    I mean, once you establish this connection with a girl, that you have eachothers trust, the playing is amazing, she will say 'no' (depending on kind of play) or will tease she doesn't feel anything (with punishments) or that she doesn't learn (when disciplining)... you know, bratty kind of behavior. It's fun, gets the best out you, just don't get lost in it

    Doesn't mean you should be seeking her approval etc.. (which you also didnt ) - this is more to establish a frame together and it's kind of part of leading

    but anyway: i think you will do fine if you calibrate to the women and don't get lost in pushing non vanilla on vanilla (i think you have an eye for this)
    this was merely an addition you could add in certain circumstances, it could give you a 'wild card' to go beyond her usual boundaries, cause you have checked on her and there is a safety system
    (always respect the safe word)

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    I'll try it with tomorrow's girl. She was on her period so I didn't bang her but we did other stuff and talked about trying s&m. My problem is I only want to bang a chick once so it's only really hot if I don't talk about it first and just do it. I like the safe word thing bc I usually feel really nervous cavemanning a chick I know my neighbors can hear shouting now stop etc. I'm always thinking if I piss this girl off after sex she could have me imprisoned with little effort. I mean like tonight's chick squirted some blood the first time because my nails weren't trimmed and I was overzealous. A rape test would not look good considering I slapped her, choked her, made her swallow fluids, made her bleed, pulled her hair, restrained her arms, etc. esp in a foreign country where I'd have a hard time explaining myself. But talking about a safe word is a little weird given the way I'm laying these girls. I feel like it's kill things for first time sex. Maybe something to bring up on round three? Yeah in fact round three should be the s&m round!

    1 man cums as quickly as possible
    2 man makes woman squirt
    3 s&m with safe word
    4 kick her out for being a filthy abused whore jk

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    it's tricky, you wanna play it safe but on other hand it might be just a woman's fantasy..
    I don't think it's important you live up 100% to those fantasies, you can get close in a safer way

    hmm, I wanted to write a lot, but it's too much info to go in depth...

    Anyway, I never did all of it on the first time man.... if you want just have sex talk before to establish frame of you being the dominant etc... Pelusita had a report where he did that and he would spank the girl first and fuck with her with a dildo... still nothing too kinky, but it was a given

    you want to take things step-by-step, develop trust
    Just have dominant vanilla sex, pin her down, push her over to matrass while doggy etc, calibrate if you can spank, pull hair, light choking (with choking always release very soon, just give an idea first and gain trust for later)

    add dirty talk, it might feel awkward but you want a woman to get used to your voice, slowly, so she will be more receptive to it when you will go deeper

    you'll find some point where you'll be thinking, this might be too much

    then discuss that afterwards, i agree you don't want to interrupt a first round of sex ever by such talks, so just don't do it yet and have dominant vanilla sex...

    Hmmmm, times when I'd introduced a similar talk is after we had some really rough sex and I was having doubts like you (it was with a person I trusted though, not a ONS) and I'd say:
    "Just want to make sure we are both comfortable with this.. blablabla... how was it for you, how much more could you take?" just make it honest and respectful without a goal
    Then you can talk about the "red; yellow; green" safety word system the next time before you start and start playing

    The way you play is up to you, it usually has a theme for me
    "she turns me on too much so needs to be spanked, teased and punished for being so bad, every time she does something dirty like looking at me with hungry eyes or moaning too much, I will pull her to my lap, or turn her around to her stomach, or command her to go on her knees and I will spank her very hard, or have her choke on my cock as punishment, if it's like she enjoys it too much I will stop her from sucking me, and go back to spanking" during foreplay

    or you can just use her as your sex toy for the night, verbally command her what to do, tell her how she serves you etc,

    different things for different persons on different nights

    you don't discuss the themes really, unless it's something really different that needs planning (rape play etc), usually you can just start playing during foreplay say something like "hmmm, you've made me much too horny last week with that text, remember? do you remember?" she will say something like "Yes" admitting she's guilty or play innocent with a "no" (both are hot :P) - she will get why you asked that if you do it right... "Well I'm glad you remembered, cause we both know that has consequences for you" / when no tell her how's being bad or something
    tell her to take off her dress or something, and go on her fours or pull her over your lap and start spanking her and tell her how she NEEDS a spanking from you so she can behave well again or something

    well, don't really feel like writing more, this isn't a porno
    but I hope you get the picture of starting to play such games within boundaries and create the theme in between the lines, it's like PU frame control a bit

    However, I always established such games beyond the ONS, but on the ONS you can have dominant vanilla sex, then just follow up with a talk like "how far can we go?" then next time introduce safe words (I like the red yellow green most for introduction, one safe word is a bit too "oh BDSM")

    Maybe someone else can chime in how to do this on a first night...

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    I think women know subconsciiusly that when we objectify you and use you purely selfishly, is when you finally REACH us.

    Despite all the social programming garbage.

    Its the chicks that i ream the shit out of every ehich way, that i also like talking to after. Not all guys are like me though. A lot of guys think that a girl being slutty is someine to be used. Guys are on an average dumber than women. The best guys are way better than almost all chicks though. If you are a girl, your job is to find one of those guys and join his harem, if you can shed your social programming baggage lol. Instead of shacking up with angry losers, who judge you. Thats the recipe for female happiness, yup. I shit you not lol 100% serious.

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    Hangman I've been thinking along these lines too. It really is unfortunate that being good at game and having abundance means we rarely see the reason to try to help potentially good girls shed their programming and baggage. Me personally I just don't have the time. Then I think the girl gets even more programmed bc she has no clue why I broke it off after one bang. She thinks I only wanted sex and so she will act more prude. When actually I felt like she was already way to prude for the quality of her body and fuck but she could have been kept around if she wa snore open Sexually and didn't make me work for it to the point of losing attraction.
    as an experiment I tried discussing this with a few girls and all they could hear was I'm a sex pervert and I think your fat. So sad. This is why it's better to just be aggressive and plow then at least the one time sex is hot and nasty.

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    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...game)-Explicit

    Try to do something similar pre-lay, t&m?

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