I know it's late but thanks for a great post, just what I need at this time of my life (too busy, no time for sarging around or maintaining a rotation, have to focus intensively on my mission/career while still need consistant sex and somewhat emotional validation to not blow up)
I also find it amusing when reading O---'s mono-defense reply here after seeing his mono-over-announcement thread last month, give me great insights on which system to consider. http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?15332-Mono-over
However you mentioned that you've been in a NRE with a 21y model that you suspected would cheat soon, how could you still go all-in and promise her mono? if she does cheat while you haven't started de-bonding process yet isn't it catastrophic?
Hmm. For me the new frontier in pickup/seduction is not a rewarding series of mono "relationships" but is poly/mltr/threesomes... This just sounds like serial monogamy broken down scientifically, engineered, controlled for max benefit (kudos). The way people move around in this economy and seek designer lifestyles full of change and travel... Well serial monogamy is the new norm! Mainstream Society needs to readjust to become more in line with what ur talking about. Every time I meet a girl on tinder who is "seeking Prince Charming" I cringe and think "happy ever after" as about as ridiculous as everyone growing up thinking they will be rich or president. There is way too much black and white relationship thinking of "let's get married" vs let's SNL and never speak again. Girls need to be educated as much as guys on how to build something that starts with sex, has the possibility of going mono/staying friends, and ending without some 1950s style breakup where you go through ridiculous pain and split up half your shit like idiots.
I think the older generation of pua's is too old to venture into poly/threesomes/mltr in different cities and are in the settle down phase of life. Then the younger guys are stuck following a system that focuses more on a particular style of game (night, day, online) rather than focusing on long term alternative lifestyles and alternative relationships. Good post though and I'd make my son read this at age 12 if I had one.
I don't think this pair-bond rush is the "new frontier". A better frame is to become the MAN that can lead said WOMAN (or WOMEN) into what ever relationship / status that fits best for you - which obviously changes and fluctuates.
My advice would be to follow whatever your current desires are, don't listen to anyone else's opinions or preferences on ANYTHING, all you want from others is advice on how to attain whatever it is you wish to attain. If you ever care to go this direction, you have my thoughts on it to help inform the action you take.
Might pop my head back in here from time to time, but probably won't have any new outings to talk about.
Catch you guys later.
Just lol! you and your action reports, now you were the first one to fall, just lol... oh fuck!
I am such a hypocrite, I may be joining you soon... fuck my life!
Anyways, my point is for boys and girls to see how easy is to find a girl or main, as long as you put in the work...