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    Quote Originally Posted by Assman View Post
    Instead of vanilla sex, maximise pleasure through perversity or reckless abandon... e.g. dirty talk, role-play, BDSM, public places etc. He'll either come or have fun trying...
    LOL...yeah I need to figure out what he likes in that regard! I'm pretty sure he's not into doing things in risky public places (maybe because he's married, lol and that's enough risk...). I saw he answered on OKCupid that he'd never had sex in a public place and never wanted to, or something to that regard. I'm actually much happier in a bed too, lol, I can't cum when I'm feeling scared of getting caught...I have to be way more relaxed.

    As far as dirty talk, role-play, bdsm stuff, I still need to figure him out and what he is into.

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    Yay!!!! He came with me!!! It was our 5th time having sex. He's on a business trip and he flew me to him for a night, took me out to a great seafood restaurant, then to his hotel to hangout and for hot sex. The sex part this time really only lasted maybe 3-3 1/2 hrs. So not as long as some of the other times. It was fantastic though and he finally came!

    It was kind of as I suspected. He had me on my stomach and was pumping REALLY hard and fast right beforehand. He was probably afraid to be that rough with me before. It's cool though. He pulled out and came on my back and on my ass.

    He may have been more relaxed too, since we were away from home. We didn't have any drinks and this is the first time we got to spend a full night together.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovergirl View Post
    Yay!!!! He came with me!!!

    It was kind of as I suspected. He had me on my stomach and was pumping REALLY hard and fast right beforehand. He was probably afraid to be that rough with me before. It's cool though. He pulled out and came on my back and on my ass.
    Awww... That is so nice. Good for you. It is like a basket of puppies but stickier. All jokes aside been there from the other side, some woman are like a door bell push the button and it rings other woman are like a Rubix Cube... A little frustrating but so satisfying when you finger* it out.

    *Pun intended...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Skills360 View Post
    sometimes long sex can numb your dick... try this:

    Play with his nipples...

    blow him in the doggy style position and tell him story while you are blowing him of a time you fucked 2 guys, and as you blow him, make uhmmmm type sound, the vibration of the uhmmm helps, again while playing with his nipple...
    YES PLEASE!

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    - Liminal spaces and bubbles
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    - Sexual framing: Contrasting

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Thin Man View Post
    Awww... That is so nice. Good for you. It is like a basket of puppies but stickier. All jokes aside been there from the other side, some woman are like a door bell push the button and it rings other woman are like a Rubix Cube... A little frustrating but so satisfying when you finger* it out.

    *Pun intended...

    Har, har. I am excited though and feel relieved and kind of accomplished, lmao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Teevster View Post
    YES PLEASE!

    -Teev

    You guys are hilarious. I'm not even sure how that is humanly possible, but it sounds interesting- talking to a guy while giving him a backwards sort of bj and also playing with his nipple.

    It reminds me of this story a co-worker was telling me about a cosmo sex tip that she read once. (Cosmo is notorious for it's ridiculous advice for women regarding sex).

    The magazine's tip was that you should take a man on a picnic. During that picnic, you are supposed to somehow find a couple of smooth, flat rocks. Somehow you clean them off without him wondering what you are doing and lay them on the blanket to heat up in the sun. Then you feed him this picnic and coerce him to have sex on the blanket.

    WHILE he is thrusting, you are supposed to reach around and grab ahold of one of these rocks. The article said to put it under his BALLS and that the heated rock there would feel good and be a turn-on.

    My co-worker said she jokingly attempted this with a male friend (fully clothed). She had him lay on top of her and they tried various positions but there was NO position she could find where her arm was long enough to reach around and put a hot rock on his balls. Notwithstanding the somewhat dubious question of the actual temperature of the rock after it has been sitting in the sun.

    She said maybe she needs longer arms? Or perhaps she was supposed to THROW the rocks at his balls..... Lol

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    With new partners, I also have problem cumming and I can go for many hours (usually it gets boring).

    My problem is that I'm not always relaxed. I'm just too focused on making her feel great.

    The times that I've actually been able to cum with a new girl has been when she starts talking dirty (esp. praising my dick). If I feel she really is crazy about sex with me, it makes me horny and I can easily cum!

    Here are two links to a rough dirty talk guide found on reddit for both men and women to get you started:

    For men talking to women:
    https://www.reddit.com/comments/d4tz...rty_to_a_girl/

    For women talking to men:
    https://www.reddit.com/comments/dqnc...uy_by_request/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nheme View Post
    With new partners, I also have problem cumming and I can go for many hours (usually it gets boring).

    My problem is that I'm not always relaxed. I'm just too focused on making her feel great.

    The times that I've actually been able to cum with a new girl has been when she starts talking dirty (esp. praising my dick). If I feel she really is crazy about sex with me, it makes me horny and I can easily cum!

    Here are two links to a rough dirty talk guide found on reddit for both men and women to get you started:

    For men talking to women:
    https://www.reddit.com/comments/d4tz...rty_to_a_girl/

    For women talking to men:
    https://www.reddit.com/comments/dqnc...uy_by_request/
    Interesting and nice links. Even some of the ones directed at "submissive" women sound too dominant to me, but I do (or would) say some of the other stuff. Im pretty sure I told him he turns me on (during sex) and thats the truth.

    Its funny, I was talking to him about how women are given all these weird sex tips and he said thats because women like to make everything complicated. He said women don't need "sex tips". He said all they need to do is be there and that there is nothing a woman can do to be "good in bed". So there's his opinon, haha. He was like, men are simple, all a woman has to do is touch him and a man will be happy. So, I probably don't have to go out of my way to do something spectacular in the bedroom with him.

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 1 votes.

    Haha funny at the touching thing... I went a little alcoholinduced overboard with touching a guy last week.. and he just couldn't help telling me how nice it was...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kit View Post
    Haha funny at the touching thing... I went a little alcoholinduced overboard with touching a guy last week.. and he just couldn't help telling me how nice it was...

    I should probably clarify that he was specifically talking about touching his man parts, haha, but even just touching him at all is probably a good thing. When I was with my other guy, that is basically a fwb, the other day, he was hurting due to an injury he got while coaching. I gave him a little massage and he was like "you have no idea how much a woman's touch makes a difference".

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