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Yeah if you're in a social circle setting you want to play social circle game. Its not just "in education," its any case where you're living your life within some sort of smaller established social community.
Originally Posted by hey_lover
You describe immediate social circle lays here ("friends first, lovers second months later"), but I find extended social circle to be pretty solid for fast lays within these settings. Like, you roll with your group to a house party where someone from your group introduces you to this girl who's from another group, and you end up fucking her that night. To this day most of the hottest girls i've fucked came about this way.
You can still cold approach on campus (go about your day style, I would never "sarge"), but if you don't have some group to invite her into and are this campus loner (and you can become known as this within an ongoing social context like school life), it'll be much more of an uphill battle. If you could cold approach the girl in line with you at the student bookstore, and invite her casually to go drinking with your friends that night, it'd come off a lot more natural to how people normally meet.