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    Do Women Enjoy Sexual Variety?

    I always ponder this

    Do Women Enjoy Sexual Variety?

    it's a major turn on for me a girl who's into sexual variety, swinging etc. I've had one girl off the top of my head for sure says that she likes to fuck different guys but she's 19 so I can't really say for certain that's a for sure.

    the book sex at dawn also has the argument that womens insatiability for sex after it's become is because they're built to be fucked by multiple guys in a gangbang sort of style and illicit sperm competition. studies show that gangbang porn elicits for dopamine and sperm production in men too. (I personally know this and it turns me on I can attest).

    my experience though is that women are more on the hypergamous side. they usually have one main guy and they play other guys off of each other as one guy falls and they 'trade up'.

    what's your opinion? is my dream of an uber slut to have gangbangs with a pipe dream? I had one bisexual rotation girl and she would bring other girls to fuck but that was literally 2 different girls in 300+ lays

    my ideal would be one main who really turns me on and be hardcore swingers lol. at least I think it would be!

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    I think women enjoy sexual variety but at a much lower rate than men. IME women in their 30s will prefer having one single partner at any given time. They may have a fling or 2 but it's not sustainable.
    Younger women [18 - 30] are more flexible and may go though phases of sexual variety/ multiple partners.

    Overall, women do not enjoy sexual variety as much as men and tend to structure their lives much toward a mono LTR.

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    Definitely younger girls fuck off for a good few years before actually wanting some stability, or at least from what i've seen. The typical run the gamut from 18-24 depending on how much inner issues they may be working out or through. Honestly, I've only met a handful of actually legit stable girls that had crazy sex drives and kinks, all the others seemed some sort of bpd or repressing issues unfortunately. But I bring it up because the wild ones, either wanted to fuck all off and experienced group sex and were into 4somes 3 somes, bisexual stuff, or they were very clingy and appreciated insane connective monogamous relationships of possession, while still cheating on the side with another man but a COnnective cheating. weird i guess.

    The girls I know who are relatively into and accepting of multiple partners and group sex are generally late twenties early thirties and have had their experience and consciously decided they are nymphos at heart who cant be tamed or dont want to, type mentality. The younger girls seem to be interested in it for the exploration, so ideally gaming them from the outset with the mentality and implementing the idea into her head that this is what your looking for, would proabably net you a fun girl you could run skills modified fixer upper game, but ganger banger upper game
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    I fucked this pretty cute girl from tinder and she's super kinky. she already has an open relationship boyfriend
    and she loves fucking tons of different guys. unfortunately she isn't super bi. but she would come in handy as a dhv as sex clubs and to get other girls

    even still 10 years into the game, women really do seem to love pair bonding the most in general. i've had the most success with just being a playa
    I think they get turned on by my conflicting agenda and that it signals good genes or something?
    whenever i try to abide by the pair-bonding agenda it rarely works for me and i just get pissed off and go back into playa mode

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    I think the sweet spot for fucking women without being in a defined relationship is creating the illusion of a possible relationship in the future but without any pressure or limitations one way or another.

    Like if she knows you're fucking multiple women but leaving the area soon she's going to have a bunch of logical and emotional issues with fucking you. Whereas if you were sticking around she has much easier time with it. There's lots of exceptions and I get laid often enough while traveling the world but they tend to be either obvious nightlife ONS or the girl keeps in touch and we kinda stay pair bonded. It's way more rare to have a repeat customer who doesn't end up feeling too slutty or weird.

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    Neurologically speaking their amygdala is reversed, so emotional memory, and even physical arousal based memory are the equivalent explanation to our visual preference. Why "act as if" works, why sexual projection and "you go first" works, why KINO works.

    That's why pickup and influence in this game even exists, plain and simple women, sure can see a man and get turned on, but combined with ASD, and the previous neurology don't act on it, as much as they will act on for lack of a better term emotional and physical deja vu.

    That's the science. The experience combined with that, says EVEN MORE so they like variety of men. But not at a visual difference of looks level. Most women would like to fall in passionate infatuated love with some new guy every day and give her/cunt up to him in submission. The same as we wanna just stick our dick in whats pretty. So in a way like I said, they enjoy variety more, they just can't get it, because it requires the man to really work her over emotionally, bypass social conditioning and arouse her so much more mentally.

    They would like variety even more than we would, but they will never experience it like you or I can (hell without game a man can have 5 10s in a day with money), they could never pay a billion dollars to experience it, it simply isn't available from most men. Most men can't tickle womens brains at all, it has to "just happen" and she has to tickle her own brain about him, not even realizing shes doing it. Most women in order to get their cock, have to seduce themselves about some guy in a nuttshell, and they aren't gonna do that as often as they want (that variety) or theyl'll be seen as some hysterical sex crazed nympho. I have a theory that actual female nymphomaniacs do just that. I am an untouchable pariah psychology community wise though so pfff lol.

    The flip side is we can't ever really experience that level of passion and intensity about a woman sexually. We can fall in love and even be obsessed sure, but that is more about US, than her, same as when women love us it is how we make them feel. All love is sort of "selfish bullshit" neurologically speaking. However they CAN experience a passion about us, that we replace with visual lust, not deep ingrained memory like they do.

    The pleasure of variety women would experience, would torture them with pleasure. Where our variety is non stop release. Fascinating stuff. Pondering it helps with game, lets one understand them a little better.

    We literally put in and expel, they take in and receive. It is ironic how it is all wired up. Even sexually, out of love, we give, and they take. The difference between men and women is practically evidence of intelligent design when you delve in to it deeply, beyond the biological and in to the synergy of mind and body. It is almost mystical, but deceptively simple to work once you put it all together.


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    you make a lot of sense. I've never seen someone put something into action like that.

    my experience has been that women are like men just they don't take the lead and just receive and the way they look at us for sex is the way we look at them for relationships (in terms of pickyness)

    makes sense tho why a lot of girls always want to 'talk' and get emotionally stimulated etc. it's extremely tedious and to be honest I don't think I'm very good at it.
    If this is reality, which it may very well might be as you put it, my success is in spite of my shitty game lol

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    You read any romance novel and there are 3 themes I mentioned above. Of course some chicks are wired similar to men, some men similar to women, they've actually studied it in transgenders and find it a lot, reversed amygdalas etc. There are chicks out there flicking their bean to weird porn, pressing on it all day if they are alone lol. Most of them are lesbian though.

    But most of our prospects are straight, and the themes from romance novels are in place to arouse them.

    The whole novel is about the guy and her problems with other women. If a man wrote a female main character like that he would be condemned as a sexist lol. But the infatuation with the man, and competition with his woman or an intruding woman is a third or half of the arousal to the reader.

    You find very little visual description except to set the character.

    There is always a social barrier, and if there isn't SHE puts one up, and he overcomes it. (remember that when the borefriend comes up, or she says she can't date right now cause she is in college or whatever guys lol, she is asking you to jump through a lego size hoop compared to whats he really wants, she wants you to fuckin kill her stepfather who forbids your love with a musket on horseback in a civil war battle muchacho, make a little effort guys lol)

    The guy always also infatuates her, USUALLY because "he stirs something in her she cant explain, but its frustrating", type lengthy descriptions. Why emotionally stimulating her is so important, even if you are her type looks wise, she might hook up with you under the right circumstances, but she isn't getting what she wants unless she is infatuated with you, basically falling in love and frustrated with how you make her feel.

    Then finally the "hero" (cough male porn star of the piece cough) says "ok fuck this, I can tell you want me, I took over the company your boss wouldn't let you date in and own it now, and you are obviously infatuated with me but wont make a move because all you do is think not act cause you are spineless in all this, here bitch, come over here and kiss me now bend over that fuckin stack of hay". That's the class version anyway. A lot of chicks who get infatuated though in real life don't have the stamina to play it out that way and get what they really want, they are more pushy and ruin it for themselves a lot of times. You all know the type the "shes always sitting next to him and hanging on him and showing up where he goes" type. Same principal though, they just aren't enjoying getting the guy to take them the way they want. Chicks who are really in to looks to an absurd male like level tend to do that shit, so I rarely get it. I get it post game, post lay BAD though, like they can't keep a level of minor "decorum". I'm the " he is not in our class honey, whats wrong with you" guy shes sticking her tongue down the throat of at her parents office. The neediness fucks up women too though pre lay. They force it on the guy and reduce the pleasure they could have gotten, and feeling he could have had feeling like the man. Same as a bad PUA, they'll over "calibrate" and watch for signals for too long, til she loses infatuation, she forgets he has won her over socially, then moves in and shes like "that was last week motherfucker, get lost"

    But yeah it can be tedious as a man to work this stuff, when you aren't genuine interested in her. Why I say always go for YOUR 10 face wise when possible. She has to be compelling to really pay attention to the experience you are giving her, or you go at some point "ugh shes not my type" "ugh, all she is is a pair of fake tits, shes ugly, I don't wanna hear this anymore" vs almost falling in love penis wise with that perfect look you just love. So you can not only pay attention to her state and her experience, but enjoy the interaction genuine.

    Irony is, the most genuine thing a guy can do, to enjoy his interactions with women, and be better, is be so shallow as to realize he is a set of eyes, she is a brain, comes to attraction, and just go with it on his end, and pay attention to her state on her end. A lot of guys think "be a genuine decent guy", and they start trying to bang their 6 to "connect with her mind", nope, you gotta have incentive too, shes gotta turn you on, before you can bother to care to turn her on long enough to pay attention to her mind at all. Just nature.

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 2 votes.

    Great stuff on here

    @ Jack

    Agreed on the sex at dawn stuff, women are evolved for gangbangs and getting as much quality seed in them as possible, hence multiple orgasms and taking longer to orgasm, I realize now, my entire sex book is mimicking multiple partners ie. lasting long in bed etc. The other school of thought is female orgasm is unneccesary and a holdover from androgynous embryos - clit is an inverted penis. The clit is an inverted penis, although I don't by it's an accident, female orgasm is a massive incentive for having sex, and studies show that orgasm increases chances of pregnancy by sucking up sperm into their cervix. Not to mention the fact that our sperm has properties to kill other guys sperm and it's obvious it's a free for all competition.

    IMO girls would be fucking four or 5 guys a night in a club with no social stigma against it. Think about it, a girl spends two hours dressing up to go grind on and dance with 4 or 5 hot guys and go home and masturbate about it, minus social stigma a club would be a fucking orgy.

    Also look at pornhubs women search terms, top ten are lesbian, gangbangs, rough sex BBC, everything out of there mouth about sex is a lie. Also I'd be willing to be all women are bi, matches my experience - also some evolutionary basis on this when you look at our closest relatives the bonobos. Also look at the study of women watching porn, pussies get wet right away, yet they deny arousal - and the scientists can't understand the reason lol - "women's phsyiological arousal must be different from their desire"...

    Now women also want to pair bond just like we do. But they want to fuck a bunch of guys too, just like we do. IMO women are wired exactly like we are and watch the exact same porn we do.

    @Gun

    Always some great stuff here. You touch on women's emotionality and you're right, since women are more primative (Primate like literally, see the treatise on love) emotions are a major seductive point. And it takes an attractive guy with game to blast through their social conditioning. With that said, minus that social conditioning, it would be one good looking guy after another. And pair bonding, and being jealous of their pair bonded partner.

    Same as us. Everyone wants a high quality partner to pair bond with, who's only loyal to them and to have partners on the side, although almost no girl will admit this to you.

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    Yep this is why you can always get chicks to sleep with other men inside a relationship, just breaking that mental barrier.

    It sort of "turns women out" though in a way, because it kills the hypergamous nature in them.


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    "he doesn't have to have it all, fuck thinking i'm a slut, I am gonna enjoy men and still have a man" style thinking takes over. It's like women are stuck in some mode where they feel like they can either have a variety of flavored hot wings or a pizza, but not both. You tell em "hey here, have this yummy pizza baby, i'm all yours, and yeah throw some wings on the plate too it's cool" (little light, weird, gross nlp for the day lol) and they go insane. They become the equivalent of a 400lb woman sexually, then blame you for it however.

    After you, they will tend to sleep around like a guy for quite a while based soley on sexual arousal. Most men can't generate it psychologically, so they'll go for good looking guys, dominant guys, big guys.

    When chicks go orgy mode like that for a while, after having that barrier busted and getting an "oh fuck I can have my cake and eat it too" relationship, they slowly fall back in to their conditioning though, and women will be women, start getting infatuated with certain specific men again.

    I've shared women before and seen the exact pattern happen over and over in the ones I managed to get a glimpse in their life again. I've had the social conditioning coming back and the shame feelings associated with it directed at me as well. To the point I've had a bottle thrown at me in a bar from an upper level deck thing. We ended fairly badly, however later seen each other, when she was in slut phase and we fucked again. So everything was cool. Maybe a year later she out of the blue she tried to fuckin plonk me and missed. She was yelling at the bouncer dragging her out "that whiteboy bitch (she was mexican) made me fuck all kinds of dudes and ruined my life" I can only assume she "blamed" me for her times sucking off random dudes . I seen her way later in years, with a wedding ring, so I assume she went back monogamous.

    I mean ASKED and complied with lustfully, turning in to "made" is violently strong distortion of memory, because the conditioning returned so strong. Crying and throwing bottles was just her though.

    Oh yeah on the non stop orgy thing, HIV woulda derailed it for a while I think, even though its incredibly hard to catch through bareback vaginal sex. In orgy world it woulda spread like crazy, cause yeah anal and orgys/rough sex/multiple guys would have been the norm. Then again it didn't make the gay community exactly go celibate so maybe not.


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