Sorry to be crass, but eh.
Found a girl I've been casually dating for a year - whom I like a lot and met at a work function (works at a sister office) ... apparently has slept with numerous men from my office (before we met). And these were all One Night Stand type deals. The information isn't confirmed by her, but very highly credible.
I guess I can't fault her for that. But for some reason, I feel duped, or like a clown right now. I'm not sure why. Not sure how much is 'rumor' as well, but some of these alleged guys look physically disgusting (short, overweight, zit faced) and I think that's the part that upsets me the most. Like she's very attractive, but apparently does not have high standards, seemingly. What does that say about me, ya know?
This is literally like that scene from Office Space where he tells Jennifer Anniston "You slept with LUMBURG?" -- but in this case, unlike the movie, she actually did. I don't work in the same department as these guys so that's not a factor but fuck.
Haven't brought it up to her yet. I've been reading around and most Blogs about 'the gf's past' say to just leave it alone and move on, and don't bring it up unless you want to end things.
I don't really blame her, but I think at heart, I do judge her for being easy to an extent. I feel like I need to at least air my feelings, and then move on, after the fact. But I'll probably seem like a huge douchebag trying to bring up a history that she herself didn't even bring up (some clowns at work were gossipping).