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    Those of you who never have ED and can get it up anytime

    I'm curious and have some questions for you, to see if I can see a pattern. (of course assuming you don't take any PE):

    - How often do you masturbate?

    - How fit are you?

    - How often do you workout?'

    - And maybe most important question, how often do you have sex? (with same or new girl)

    A lot of people are talking here about this topic, getting tips etc. but it's also good perspective to see from you who like never had that problem and see if there are somethings in common that you do or DON'T do to stay that way.

    Thanks for reply.

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 1 votes.

    For me, answers to these questions have varied a lot, without causing ED. So, are they really relevant?? (I also smoked for some years and partied heavily in periods.)

    Possibly relevant: I changed my diet around 1994/age ~20:
    -Completely replaced PUFAs with animal fats.
    -Meat as the major component of every meal.

    This ended my life long problems with always catching colds all year around. My immune system has been seemingly rock solid ever since.

    It also meant that even in periods where I got fatter, I was (probably) not diabetic. Diabetic/obesity (coupled with age) is the main cause of ED, right?
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    IMO, its always a good idea to have a parachute when you need it - its called Viagra....stock up on it (and its variants like Kamagra) to make sure you can get it up when you need it

    Its been a life saver many a time..and theres a million and one reasons you might not be able to get it up

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    Quote Originally Posted by ijjjji View Post
    For me, answers to these questions have varied a lot, without causing ED. So, are they really relevant?? (I also smoked for some years and partied heavily in periods.)

    Possibly relevant: I changed my diet around 1994/age ~20:
    -Completely replaced PUFAs with animal fats.
    -Meat as the major component of every meal.

    This ended my life long problems with always catching colds all year around. My immune system has been seemingly rock solid ever since.

    It also meant that even in periods where I got fatter, I was (probably) not diabetic. Diabetic/obesity (coupled with age) is the main cause of ED, right?
    To be honest I don't think it's all clean black or white, there are many reasons to not get it up, I just wanted to see if I could find something interesting.

    I don't know if obesity is the main reason of ED, but I've read about obesity being linked to ED. Something about the fat in the belly/genital area "blocking" or disturbing the blood flow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Impulse View Post
    IMO, its always a good idea to have a parachute when you need it - its called Viagra....stock up on it (and its variants like Kamagra) to make sure you can get it up when you need it

    Its been a life saver many a time..and theres a million and one reasons you might not be able to get it up
    Yeah I've thought about it, but is there any risk of being "addicted"? I don't wanna get used to it and only be able to get it up with Viagra.

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    Nope, no signs of addiction with viagra - take it in very small doses ie a quarter tablet when you need it

    And the rest of the time, obviously if you can get it up, just use the natural method. I just always recommend anyone to have a bit of viagra stashed somewhere in their wallet for emergencies

    A good way to get it up is to do squat workouts regularly (even standing squats for a few minutes a day is good) because that will boost your growth hormones, testosterone etc..to help get it up

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    Being overweight does reduce your testosterone levels. It is also linked to all sorts of bad health problems. You need a much lower carb and higher meat and animal fat diet, and exercise to lose weight. Start by quitting sugar and then starchy vegetables. Move your diet towards meat and green vegetables, and get some exercise. Start taking walks, the exercise we are evolved to do.

    I am thin, and until I reached my late 50s could always get it up right after ejaculating. I smoked tobacco and weed when I was young, and drank to excess, but I got around on foot and bicycle, worked standing all day, and skied in the winter, so I was in good shape. I was whacking off several times a day, and when I'd fuck girls would always go for repeat fucks until they wouldn't do it again. My single night record was 6 loads. I did a lot of 3 and 4 load nights.

    I think part of it is hereditary, but part of it is just keeping going. I am really turned on by being in bed with a naked chick, and after I'd cum, I'd snuggle, and keep hugging and caressing her, and before long I'd be getting hard and be ready for more. You have to be relaxed and have your parasympathetic nervous system running the show to get hard. If you are anxious and apprehensive and have worries about your performance, that is a surefire boner killer. Good self esteem is important to feeling good about yourself in bed. You also have to be attracted to the woman and comfortable with her. It is a myth that men will fuck anything and do not need attraction for arousal.
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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 3 votes.

    Quote Originally Posted by Impulse View Post
    A good way to get it up is to do squat workouts regularly (even standing squats for a few minutes a day is good) because that will boost your growth hormones, testosterone etc..to help get it up
    I'd run up many flights of stairs and eat a ton of red meat on date days as a pre-emptive measure, because I was paranoid I'd get ED because I got it once when I was drunk and shit-faced.

    The worst case of ED that I ever had (as in nothing, not even half-chub) was when I brought home my personal perfect 10 for the first time though. It was way easier than I expected to get her naked, and I was somehow not ready yet lol. MM instructs that you have to neg her at C3 and do a backflip at A4, and I hadn't done any of that shit yet. Didn't this chick know how the game was supposed to be played? WTF lol!

    But she was sweet, so I just chilled for a bit and talked and it came back. And we pretty much fucked for the next three days straight. I would have killed myself if I had fucked that one up lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paw View Post
    I don't know if obesity is the main reason of ED, but I've read about obesity being linked to ED. Something about the fat in the belly/genital area "blocking" or disturbing the blood flow.
    Its more of a whole-body buildup of vein plaque, but yeah, something like that..
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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 2 votes.

    I had a few months of ED after broke up with my long-time girlfriend. Nowadays I fuck at least 3 times a week, 2 hours average per session (stay rock hard all the time) and can do 2+ back to back easily assuming I still find the girl attractive after first fuck.

    These 5 things helped me immensely:

    1. No masturbate
    2. Work-out every day. You don't really need weight training but you should if you can, it boosts your T-level a whole lot. Due to some reasons I can only do BW Training at the moment but it works great too.
    3. Kegel every day (easier with porn if you like to, that watching-porn-give-you-ED is a bad myth, just don't touch your peepee)
    4. Always take control of the situation/sex session. At least you have to know/think that she's your little bitch and will do whatever you want and order her to)
    5. Live as stress-free as possible. I can still get hard on a shitty day if horny enough, but it surely helps a ton.

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