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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 4 votes.

    -I swear to god you come up with the nicest analogy terms, Cozy!!
    -Dryness is where accumulation of thirst happens! <3

    Allow me a brief history accounting:
    -Unlike you, as a newbie I only knew GWM + comedy + crazy clothes. So I started as 100% wet.
    -Then I read the Dreem post where he let a girl 'hang to dry' (silence) for 4 days, resulting in her orgasm when she started giving him a BJ. (Lol I actually tested this on a GF. Confirmed!)
    -Then the IN10SE post about "mini vacuum" in conversation and kino.

    But, I often fail to mention how impressed I was by your early posts on things like:
    -Light vs. dark energy.
    -Posing vs. connecting.

    It was only after reading your posts, that I too started realizing that there is something ever-present and all-important called vibes..

    OP, my apologies for this mini-derail.
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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 2 votes.

    Quote Originally Posted by ijjjji View Post
    -I swear to god you come up with the nicest analogy terms, Cozy!!
    -Dryness is where accumulation of thirst happens! <3

    Allow me a brief history accounting:
    -Unlike you, as a newbie I only knew GWM + comedy + crazy clothes. So I started as 100% wet.
    -Then I read the Dreem post where he let a girl 'hang to dry' (silence) for 4 days, resulting in her orgasm when she started giving him a BJ. (Lol I actually tested this on a GF. Confirmed!)
    -Then the IN10SE post about "mini vacuum" in conversation and kino.

    But, I often fail to mention how impressed I was by your early posts on things like:
    -Light vs. dark energy.
    -Posing vs. connecting.

    It was only after reading your posts, that I too started realizing that there is something ever-present and all-important called vibes..

    OP, my apologies for this mini-derail.
    Yeah kinda like the difference between ginger and chocolate milk
    Chocolate milk feels soooo good but it makes you lethargic and you start to regret it, burp and stuff
    Ginger is aight, but it perks you up and you feel happy after

    When you wring yourself dry of all that validating hyper energy
    Cut through the crap to her sober minds desire for sex with a competant guy
    Then the scent of that ginger is more than enough to assosciate you with pleasant things
    She wants to enjoy it,

    While if shes had her fill of chocolate milk, shes done, put that shit to the side and call her a taxi
    But a ginger biscuit to dip in with her milk... daaaaayum.


    You just gotta understand that dynamic
    How they compliment
    How they have limits
    How it has positives and negatives regarding their assosciations

    Btw, sexual desire is most potent when it has this "zing" to it
    That sort of sexual zest
    And those qualities are best represented when the girl isn't thirst quenched, cuz her mind will get imaginative on that zest and zing
    Just her touching you will be like "omg, I need this"


    And btw, this intensifies if she thinks you are intelligent in behaviour, because the assumption of stupidity makes her less invited and more an intruder
    And once shes invited, just after that zest, she is in utter heaven
    Without you having to cram her into it



    Thats why these days my seductions might be as simple as tracing her shoulder strap while shes looking out the window
    Cuz she just wants to breathe it in

    Its a subtle point maybe to the newer guy though





    Its the difference between good and purrfect
    And if you can do purrfect
    Girls are gonna respect you

    Less flaking/less lmr/less asd assumptions
    Thats goooood


    Nothing is truly perfect though, they are always going to be who they are
    (shrugs)
    Its just something to be aware of



    Anyways when you are the sexiest guy in the room, its not in your interest to hand out choc milk, cuz girls will assume you are useless and chuck you in with everyone else
    You are that guy with a lil ginger, and they know its going to be heaven

    Girl: omg his body, dick, smile, way of moving... *druel*
    You: (half a smirk) wanna chill with me a sec?
    Girl: yes! I mean... sure, ok



    Thats the peak, not sweating your ass off on the dancefloor grinding for makeout

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    This post has been ranked 4.00 out of 10 with 3 votes.

    Why isn't this thread locked yet? lol

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    This post has been ranked 2.20 out of 10 with 5 votes.

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    It's amazing how there can be un-needed focus on such a ridiculous point such as make out or not

    For some of you that may have forgotten this very basic principle , make out are supposed to be fun and exciting.. If you like the girl and the context is conductive to make outs then go for it. It's a very simple concept that does not need any over-engineering.

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    This post has been ranked 5.50 out of 10 with 2 votes.

    Quote Originally Posted by Chad View Post
    Why isn't this thread locked yet? lol
    Because not enough guys have waxed philosophical yet. It's sedfast, everything has to be complex, deep, and spiritual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ_Z View Post
    Because not enough guys have waxed philosophical yet. It's sedfast, everything has to be complex, deep, and spiritual.

    Ahhh shiiit

    :P

    Oh no


    Its ain't THAT bad
    But for real, I get you though
    Shit gets too intense sometimes
    Just gotta shrug it off right?

    I feel you man x)

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 2 votes.

    Nah, different strokes for different folks. Some just post to be sarcastic, others are here to help. And you never know who you're helping.
    At first I was annoyed at the post (the "...BS exposed" attitude in the title.) Now I'm grateful that Impulse posted it. Cose's last three posts are gold to me. (I mean the three before this very last one above. The: kiss or no kiss is not what's important when the girl steps back and takes stock, wet game vs. dry game, hot chocolate vs ginger. Those posts, I needed to read them. Thanks Cose. I'm not brown nosin', just giving another feedback)

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 1 votes.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sase View Post
    Now I'm grateful that Impulse posted it.
    This!
    Also.. Is it bad that he mixes some 'attitude' and some dubious theories into his posts, OR is it great for discussion?!?
    (I tend to be a purist, but I think the forum needed a bit of discussion at this point.)
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    This post has been ranked 1.00 out of 10 with 2 votes.

    I agree with ijjjji, sedfast needs more KJs and trolls

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    Another opinion to throw onto the pile.

    I think make-outs are probably counter-productive, or maybe meaningless, towards the lay. I highly doubt they help matters.

    In the grand scheme, makeouts are pretty meaningless. I can make out with 10 girls a night (as another poster mentioned) and not get laid.

    Yes, is it validation and some quick fun, which is why I do it, but it's kind of giving up the prize for a smaller consolation, strategically.

    Ultimately you are giving the girl exactly the safe validation confidence boost she wants so she can go back to online dating or coworkers to hunt and fuck later. Probably better to hold out and make her work for it.

    That said, sometimes they just want to hump anyway.

    Also, a caveat is --- if it's not a cold approach, but a warm approach (long time coworker, for example you just went on an hour long adventure with) ... then making out in a back alley somewhere can be quite electrically charged with all the sexual tension, just a taste. This is different, much different, from being 'hungry club makeout guy stranger' which is the context in which I'm making out with girls probably 95% of the time.

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