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Need Help For Day 2!!! :D
Hey guys, long time.I
I've been working on my social skills almost exclusively and am starting to see some progress. I recently had a date with my hair stylist lol. Immediately after the date she texted me saying it was great and that she wanted to introduce me to a frozen yogurt place.
Long story short: We have another date set up for next monday.
Now, I did a few things wrong on my first date:
- Didn't sit beside her
- Didn't touch her (except for when I took her to our table, and when we hugged after the date)
But her initiating the second date (almost) is a good sign, no?
Now I've been reading some black dragon stuff (I wish he was still a contributor to this forum ) because I want to get myself aligned. Also because this woman is 48 (I think. might be older!) and as I understand it, gaming older women is different.
Also, because I'm learning social skills, as I suspected, a lot of it is "beta" in that you're polite and civil and all that. The problem is: how do you balance that with the right amount of "alpha" to keep her from friendzoning me?
Ideally I'd have this woman as a FB for a few months and if she fits some criteria, upgrade to GF (while still pursuing other girls).
I came her because a lot of you guys have been helpful, especially in suggesting I work on my social skills. That was the best decision ever.
EDIT: One of the things I'm stuck on is the issue of paying for the date.
I paid for our first date no problem, but now we're going to a place she's introducing me to. I don't want to pay, and would rather we just pay seperately, but I'm reading from BD's blog that with women over 33 you might have to pay more. Should I still pay or not?
Also I'm picking her up at her house because I'm going to go for the kiss at the end of the date. Ideally I'd fuck her that nigfht as well, but I don't know how to convert it.