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BTW, in your opinion, should I have helped her with her food? I'm thinking I should have. I don't really care if I get placed in the boyfriend role anymore, so long as the sex is regular, because I realized I care a lot about people, and I want to be able to care about women without turning them off of me sexually.
Can you help me do that?
It's really up to you. From what you describe, what I would have done is explored the house. I would have asked her about all of her nic nacs and I would have checked out all of her pictures that she has hanging around, or the books that she reads. There is so much to learn about a woman and for me I am interested in seeing what makes them who they are, even if it isn't something long-term. If I was you, I would have asked her about her weekly routine of food preparation because I find this interesting. If she had a fun job to do, then great. Stirring the noodles can be entertaining if you make it so.
Ok, cool. What do you mean positivity tho?
It's the difference between, "Shit my day was rough, glad I hit the gym." And "Omg I blasted my pecs today, feels awesome, thought you should know!"
I really do want success with women though. I'm loving them so far man, I can't tell you. It's existential and very personal and I love it.
Thanks for all your help too, I really appreciate it. I hope I'm putting it to good use and becoming a worthy male.
They are amazing creatures and worth the effort. Try not to call people trolls when it is not warranted though. The group of guys here are top notch for character and their willingness to help. Just being a part of the group and interacting will bring your game up in ways that you may not notice.