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    How to approach in bars and pubs

    Hi Guys,

    need help opening in bars. Tonight I visited 2 bars. I saw several sets but the problem was I dont know how to open them. It was always the case that the girls were sitting in closed group on the table. I dont know how to handle that. I approached 2 times and this were single targets in the smoking area. And it cannot be the case that I go to pubs to hang out in the smoking area outside.

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    Why can't you go to the smoking area? I mean I understand not wanting to spend the entire time there, but that's why you then say "let's go inside."

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    Nothing wrong with talking in the smoking area but I want to learn a way to approach for example the table next to ours. Or the girl who is sitting with the group on the table at the other side of the room. Because at least today it was the case that I was sitting with a buddy at a table and we watched the others and asked ourself how we could approach them.

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    well, there's that old saying... if she smokes, she pokes

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    I know these groups, it seems like there is a invisible wall around them, so you try to find a intelligent way to penetrate the wall. But it is srong IMO.

    The best way is to not acknowledge the wall at all. Just walk straight in and open un-smoothly while having an innocent and naive aura about you. It is refreshing.

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    Best is to mix 'pinging' with talking to other girls in that area.

    Edit - for clarification, see these posts:
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    capture attention from one of them
    force iois
    give her space to elaborate with friends and pump the energy of them making the group positively receptive to you
    then enter with her as your point of access
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    Like with everything else in PU, you need to TRY first, see what the results are, then adjust based on that. Asking us how to do it is asking us to project all kinds of ideas and assumptions we have, which may or may not be valid for you. TRY something, you might just be surprised how receptive they are. If they aren't, troubleshoot, ask us for tips, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beckstar101 View Post
    Hi Guys,

    need help opening in bars. Tonight I visited 2 bars. I saw several sets but the problem was I dont know how to open them. It was always the case that the girls were sitting in closed group on the table. I dont know how to handle that. I approached 2 times and this were single targets in the smoking area. And it cannot be the case that I go to pubs to hang out in the smoking area outside.
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    Try
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