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Hey guys, this is gonna be my daygame journal. I'd love feedback on this stuff even if it's just 1 approach because 1 approach times 100 is 100 approaches and instead of do 100 approaches, then calibrate, I'd rather calibrate as I go.
So today I hit the old sticking point of not being able to talk to girls when other people were around. I need some kind of hack (or crack) to get past this because I missed out on some really cute girls today.
Having said that, I did approach 1 girl. She was walking along and I came from behind and said "hi"
Me: What's up?
Her: Nothing, just looking for a book.
Me: Oh cool, what kind of book?
Her: My husband's looking for it
Me: Oh *bring finger to lips for "Shh!" expression* what kind of books do you like?
Her: *crosses arms* I don't know.
Me: *chuckle* ok, take care.
That was it.
So my main goal if you will is to have a completely seamless conversation which is normal, non gamey, and real with the girl. But obviously I need to get her to open up and not take things too seriously.
I wasn't but she was definitely defensive.