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    Rookie Daygaming

    Hey guys, this is gonna be my daygame journal. I'd love feedback on this stuff even if it's just 1 approach because 1 approach times 100 is 100 approaches and instead of do 100 approaches, then calibrate, I'd rather calibrate as I go.


    So today I hit the old sticking point of not being able to talk to girls when other people were around. I need some kind of hack (or crack) to get past this because I missed out on some really cute girls today.

    Having said that, I did approach 1 girl. She was walking along and I came from behind and said "hi"

    Her: "Hi"

    Me: What's up?

    Her: Nothing, just looking for a book.

    Me: Oh cool, what kind of book?

    Her: My husband's looking for it

    Me: Oh *bring finger to lips for "Shh!" expression* what kind of books do you like?

    Her: *crosses arms* I don't know.

    Me: *chuckle* ok, take care.

    That was it.

    So my main goal if you will is to have a completely seamless conversation which is normal, non gamey, and real with the girl. But obviously I need to get her to open up and not take things too seriously.

    I wasn't but she was definitely defensive.

    So... thoughts?

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    Id highly recommend you take a look at Bacchus and his reports for this...he's a pro at daygame with very detailed breakdowns of how to go about it

    Good luck

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    Today I tried to implement hovering. It's hard because it puts the woman as the central focus and you naturally become the orbiter.

    to be honest, I feel like hovering is a lot like stalking.

    So what happened was I was entering the grocery store and I saw this gorgeous woman walking. I made note of her body and she walked over to grab a basket (just like me). When I was sure she saw me, I was about to approach but she tore off into an aisle (I wasn't going even remotely that way) so I decided to keep going. Then, suddenly, she comes out of the aisle and is about to cross my path. So I say "hello" but she just cuts in front of me and walks off. :/

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    Funny you say that, cause I think the point of it is to make the girl feel like the stalker/predator. I find it fun to wiggle my ass in front of girls while pretending I don't know what I am doing.

    Quote Originally Posted by SargeMaximus View Post
    Today I tried to implement hovering. It's hard because it puts the woman as the central focus and you naturally become the orbiter.

    to be honest, I feel like hovering is a lot like stalking.[...]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stargazer View Post
    Funny you say that, cause I think the point of it is to make the girl feel like the stalker/predator. I find it fun to wiggle my ass in front of girls while pretending I don't know what I am doing.
    Lol, that's crazy.

    It certainly feels better, but it's harder, especially in grocery stores, because by the time you've "hovered" the girl may be gone.

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    - next to girl staring at shelf and you are looking at that shelf too, inspecting the products they have (dont have to grab them).. after few secs, open with "mmm so difficult" / "too many options" and socialize a little bit

    Not best hover, but it's a natural conv starter IMO

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    Quote Originally Posted by SargeMaximus View Post
    I wasn't but she was definitely defensive.

    So... thoughts?
    My first thought is:

    It must be devastating to keep a daygame journal of your endeavors of 2 minute interactions with married women that lead nowhere for obvious reasons. It will make your pencil hand sore for when you need to use it later.

    My first question:

    Do you have the ability to carry a fruitful conversation in any venue?

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    Quote Originally Posted by COCPORN View Post
    My first thought is:

    It must be devastating to keep a daygame journal of your endeavors of 2 minute interactions with married women that lead nowhere for obvious reasons. It will make your pencil hand sore for when you need to use it later.

    My first question:

    Do you have the ability to carry a fruitful conversation in any venue?
    Lol. You're funny!


    Define "fruitful".

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    This post has been ranked 3.25 out of 10 with 4 votes.

    COCPORN, don't waste your time with this guy. He will troll you into a circular debate. It's all he's here for.

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 1 votes.

    Quote Originally Posted by Circulator View Post
    COCPORN, don't waste your time with this guy. He will troll you into a circular debate. It's all he's here for.
    Wtf???

    I've been applying your guys advice and learning from what I can. I've made progress and I try to be respectful at all times. Where is this coming from??

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