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I like Sase's 3rd vibe idea.
And mostly agree with Circ's idea that "[if] you understand social ettiquette and courtesy, and do you know how to carry casual conversations? ... and your "subject", the girl, is willing and able, then you know how to "vibe"."
But I think ijii is questioning whether it is teachable in a sense to carry "that" vibe all the way to sex. Which seems a valid question based off of discussions this year, but I'm not sure it is easily teachable.
I keep seeing this repetitive 3 lately as being a great balancing factor, so if one were to try and vibe I would assume a rule of three would benefit the endeavor.
I can't quite figure out my vibe anymore, compared to a few years ago. I got called basically a grandpa at a party the other day ha!! While, at the same party I had two very sexy girls submit to me after being at a party for an hr or 2 and "vibing them," and then of course my car of people had to leave. And our driver had almost blown our whole group out of every god damned single set at this party, so me and a friend kindly pulled damage control and the party was appeased but our chances were mostly destroyed.
Could I tell someone on here how I accomplished sparking major attraction in two girls and horrified another?
Yes, my vibe stems from a stoic demeanor with a somewhat flashy style and a quick wit with fun banter. My ec is rather poignant, I can look past a girl and not at her and have her hover IF I noticed she looked for my eyes first... My conversation is eloquent with an undertow of backroom debauchery... But, my looks are about a 5, a 7 at most, lower so to the general 18-24 girls (the one I horrified, she may have been younger).
Can I give someone "actionable" advice on how to vibe similarly?
It's difficult and will probably pick up some noise in the transmission, but the right ideas will probably emerge eventually if the person is taking action and thinking about it.
I don't know, like I said my vibe has been confusing me lately, but I think it's more to do with my outward appearance dilapidating like an unkempt Baroque painting. But then I also strike some serious attraction spikes to the core of some hotties still, so again confusing.
I can see how ones internal reliance on a presupposed vibe could be detrimental or considered fragile. If someone is completely reliant on THAT idea of them self, then they are essentially cornered by their own Ego into acting as such. Which is why my vibe is stoic, but free.