I had an interesting experience last night. I usually enter the club and start approaching. It's the only way I can get into the mindset and flow of opening girls. Otherwise, I return back to my old days where I wouldn't and end up speaking to nobody throughout the night. Anyway, I had been debating to go out for the entire day, I almost went back on myself at least 10 times before I plowed through and actually went. I really did not want to go out, but I eventually did. I was sober and hadn't drunk anything, and really just felt like shit after having a disturbed sleep cycle the night before. I went into the queue and couldn't even muster the words out of my mouth to speak to the bouncer. I was pathetic.
Anyway, I went inside and sat on the sofa seats. I was bored as hell, looking on my phone and genuinely did not want to be there. I saw many girls having fun, having a great time, and whilst I gladly would have fucked them, I didn't feel the desire to convey any emotional energy or partake in the action. So I took an E pill, had a drink and continued to sit on the sofa, giving myself a time that if the pill doesn't hit me, I'm going home. I saw a two who were dancing sensually who walked past me several times to sit on the sofa seats. I was peeping on the blonde girl who was dancing with her friend, but I remained seated, looking bored, playing on my phone, hoping that the night ends. Then the most interesting thing happened, the blonde girl opened me. She asked me why I was alone, why I wasn't dancing and from there on it was on. We spent most of the night together, dancing, kissing, drinking, etc.
Unfortunately, it didn't result in the lay. Her friend had also found a guy, and when we left the club, I told them I was driving and that I would take them all home. My girl kept on telling me not to drive throughout the night, that I was drunk. (I wasn't drunk) Her friend then said, she thought I was drunk. They left together with the guy, and I went home empty handed. I called her a little while later to ask whether I should meet her at her halls, she said no not tonight. My thoughts were that they weren't looking for sex, just fun, and that the other guy was going to get ditched soon after. FML.
Anyway, the point of the post was, looking bored, disinterested to have girls approach you.