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A little theory on how similarities and dissimilarities might affect your success - input appreciated
I just had this little idea on why sometimes you're attracted to people who are very different from you and sometimes you are attracted to people who are very similar to you and how that attraction somehow changes over time. What if it is connected to the two basic needs of a relationship I tried to describe a few times around here, being "home" and "adventure"? What if for the need of "home" you'll be looking for someone who is quite similar to yourself, enabling you to easily form a type of group together with him or her, and for the need of "adventure" you'll be seeking someone who is very different from you, making it more of a challenge to form a sense of connection and thus an adventure?
If this presumption was true, one could more easily discover his own needs at a given moment by the type of woman he currently feels attracted to.