-Playing w/my 3 yo nephew a week ago
-I suggested he should fetch toy X
-He promptly said "We must NOT play with X now."
-Thinking fast, I said "Because toy X is sleeping. We must not disturb it."
-Boom - he is already on his way over to grab that toy
-ALL things 'attraction', has this type of 'logic' as part of its 'engine'.*
-Things that are opposite in nature, tend to cause some reduction in attraction.
*: Note that things like bliss/arousal are not the same as attraction. They can be 'fuel' for it though.
PS: if you wanted to skim a ton of posts that have 'attraction' in the title, try this - https://www.google.com/search?num=10...e%3Aattraction