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This is bad advice. Sure, how you handled your date the other night was terrible, but this advice is hardly any better.
Originally Posted by FRwestk
1.) Forgetting your wallet doesn't necessitate a problem.
Just because you forget your wallet doesn't mean you need to make a big deal about anything. I don't know or care where you took this girl, but you are looking at this from a defeated point of view. "i need my wallet to have success on this date." Needs to become, "Fuck I forgot my wallet. How can I use this? How can I still make this happen?"
2.) There is an advantage with this disadvantage
Using your frame of mind you excluded yourself from most of the learnings you could have gained from this. So you take her to dinner or whatever then realize you don't have a wallet, it is going to be interesting to see how to come up with a solution. If you have to pay the bill you will find a way, whether this is getting her to pay (not a bad skill) or going with her on an adventure to your house and back to the restaurant this could actually be in your favor (getting her more invested/comfortable).
3.) This is a problem of focus
Sure you fucked up by not bringing your wallet. However, in your view of how to get with this girl it appears clear that you need a wallet to do so. Fuck the wallet. Even more you come to the point of being on the date with her and focus not on her, but of this issue that actually doesn't have to be a problem at all.
The objective is to get a day 2
Maybe we all have different objectives, but this to me is a pretty shitty objective. I don't want a day 2, I want to get the girl. If you were going to do this on day 2, then you might as well do this on day 1.