I met this girl online a couple weeks ago and she came home with me after about 2 hours. We fooled around for a while, got naked, and it got to a point where there was too much LMR for me too move forward. I don't have a lot of experience with LMR (usually it's the opposite, girls often tell me "I can't believe how comfortable I am with you") but from this girl there was a lot of "We're not having sex, I just met you, I don't know you well enough yet" etc etc. I didn't like the idea of her being the gatekeeper, so I told her I was the one who was going to make her wait.
She laughed at first, "oh yeah right, you know you want me, you can't resist me" blah blah blah but when she stays over a second night, we go down on each other, I cum all over her tits, and tell her I'm still not going to fuck her. By the third time she stays over, she gets to a point where she is actually begging me "please fuck me." I tell her she still has to wait, and I cum in her mouth instead.
On one hand, all this control & buildup seems to be skyrocketing her attraction towards me, but on the other hand, I don't want to make her wait so long that the buildup plateaus or becomes frustrating. Making a girl wait like this is completely uncharted territory for me so I'd be interested to hear some feedback from you guys who have had similar experiences.