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Thread: eye contact, tonality and bodylanguage that are direct and sexual ATTN: Cobi

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    eye contact, tonality and bodylanguage that are direct and sexual ATTN: Cobi

    Could you explain what you do to achieve this (eye contact, tonality and bodylanguage that are direct and sexual). Explain in detail please. I'm a real visual learner. Thanks a lot for your help again Cobi it has helped more than anything.

    Anyone else please give your insight too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThePoolPlayer View Post
    Could you explain what you do to achieve this (eye contact, tonality and bodylanguage that are direct and sexual). Explain in detail please. I'm a real visual learner. Thanks a lot for your help again Cobi it has helped more than anything.

    Anyone else please give your insight too.
    Its not something that can be explained very easily, for me EC is down to timming and cues,
    for most people it'd be considered staring, but I get girls locking their eyes on me all the time, so I must be doing it right.

    My BL I don't think is that great most of tthe time, being tall I tend to stoop a bit talking to people, but the usual applies, wwalk like you own the place, this is your domain, takeup as much rroom as possible (without being uncomortable) it comes from knowing you're the best person in the room. I also use my smiles sparingly and for those that deserve it, otherwise mostly I'm dead pan. You can be flirty but don't over do it.

    Tonality, well that's another you need a firm, unshaking voice, no squeaking, although I have been known to jabber on a bit, be aware of it and diffuse it with a joke "enough about me" etc... I'm quite commanding anyway and that's the pressance you need to project.

    Hope that helps.
    ~MadFerret

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    Play around with different things and then ask yourself how you feel. For example, hunch your shoulders, lower your head and frown. See how that feels first; then stand up straight, roll your shoulders back and ask yourself how you feel then. Probably better. Try adding a smile and see how that feels. Now that you know what feels good, do it.

    Try this too: give yourself a good handy jay and bask in the afterglow for a minute. Then notice your body language. Notice your facial expression. Notice your eyes. Try to see the differences between your post-sex smile and whatever your smile looks like when you force it. Now that you know what you look like when you're in a state of orgasmic bliss, try and recreate it.

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    I'm on my phone, but run a search in general for my threads and go check out 3 that I wrote back around the end of December. Lot of good stuff there. If someone could link it I would appreciate it.
    We're here. The rest is bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Z View Post
    I'm on my phone, but run a search in general for my threads and go check out 3 that I wrote back around the end of December. Lot of good stuff there. If someone could link it I would appreciate it.
    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...al-Eye-Contact

    http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.p...amp-Tonalities

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    We're here. The rest is bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Z View Post
    Much love brotha.
    For you anytime my man.

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    Hi buddy,

    It's almost impossible to describe in words.

    So, go on youtube and look up the film Casino Royale and search for "i'm the money" scene.

    Daniel Craig absolutely nails it in that scene.

    There are a few things that i add to the mix, but i put them in my book, so watch this space.

    But above anything else, getting live coaching or hanging out with a competent guy will help you more than anything.


    Peace

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    @ Everyone:

    Thanks for the responses guys they are all very good. Z I'm gonna go back and read all your posts. Cobi when is your book gonna be available for purchase?

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    A good example I happened to notice is some of the Olympic swimmers.
    ~MadFerret

    With a second chance Id mess it up again, But Id do it worse than before, Cos Ive learned so much more - Snow Patrol

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