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    It would be interesting if you could outline a little information about the archetypes you've used. I've never seen 'The Shield' and I don't know what you mean by Mel Gibson. Presumably you don't go in a club and start ranting about Jews.
    Find a way to help her to do all the things she wants to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Solus View Post
    It would be interesting if you could outline a little information about the archetypes you've used. I've never seen 'The Shield' and I don't know what you mean by Mel Gibson. Presumably you don't go in a club and start ranting about Jews.
    Nah man, thats EXACTLY what you do! 60% of the time, it works every time... Oh yeah...

    I think it means, being piercing and fascinated. Kinda like a girl stuffed with food in her mouth and you just said something badass that she can't spit it out to respond to in disbelief. Where she wants to stamp her foot down, and say NO NO NO!!! But loves it.

    Soooo, you say something like "you know daisy, you are welcome to eat more of those muffins at my place, but I'm just not sure if I have enough" where she wants to punch you repeatedly. Throttle you, and play fuck you with her eyes and emotions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ijjjji View Post
    A tip to Ij...

    Concentric circles from the top right.

    You can thank me later :P

    ~~~

    Then you can clean this up (you'll know how)

    ~~~

    Edit: Ah I see now...
    It is a ratio.
    Of how much control you give her
    Discovery - Something happening to me (something happening is bottom left)

    Yeah man! This is it. I've been looking for this
    I've been too scattered to develop anything like it myself.
    This is pure gold.
    Literally, if I had a bar of gold, and the choice between this, I'd choose the gold, buuuut I'd be really close to choosing this instead :P

    ~~~

    Nah just kidding, I would choose this.
    Its great, it is what I was kinda killing myself for not being able to develop.

    Thanks man, really. This thing takes 10 years of painstaking work to sort of develop.
    Its hardcore.

    Frankly, its fantastic.

    It is a precursor to your 9th symphony

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    Connecting and Yawny are related.
    Because if you are yawny without having CONNECTED with the environment this is very bad.
    And makes you NEED to do the rest of the map.

    If you are highly connected, then yawny is where you go. It is a bedroom like state.

    However, if you want to keep alert with women, stay somewhere in the middle.

    If you want to reingage fire in your belly and reconnect, do seduction, sultry stuff, like offer food.
    This is the pattern.


    Firey - Alert - Bedroom Yawn
    That is how you learn it.
    You litmus test firey, that makes you alert, and that makes you bedroom yawn.


    It is more of a key than it is a map (ijjjji's key "hey I like that thing")
    Anyways, I don't mean to interupt. Continue on. Really cool though.

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    What would a daygame map look like if you had to throw one together real quick?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mralexmorgan View Post
    What would a daygame map look like if you had to throw one together real quick?
    Dont know. So far, my 'day game' has been limited to coffee shops with friends, using 'clubbing' skills.

    I aspire to flirt more when grocery shopping. Anyone got pointers for this?


    Quote Originally Posted by thecostofsuccess View Post
    Connecting and Yawny are related.
    Yawning has the ability to make you aware of your own body. And awareness is a form of sensing. And sensing IS connecting.

    If hard to picture, try picturing a huge yawn building up inside you. Notice the desire to stretch as the yawn builds.. http://ijjjji-anti-aging.blogspot.com/2010/02/test.html


    Quote Originally Posted by Solus View Post
    I've never seen 'The Shield' and I don't know what you mean by Mel Gibson.
    It refers to a deadpan look that both Mel Gibson and Vic (or whats his name) in The Shield TV series have.

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    This post has been ranked 10.00 out of 10 with 1 votes.

    What better way to learn photoshop than to make your own personalized ijjjji-map?

    This is key stuff that happens on a good night out for me:
    (The main roads are the Wacky/Fun, Nice/Cuddly and Dark/Misty, but the most common is a mix between all of these)


    Notes:
    * The glowing orange man is a reference to this movie scene

    * The fuel for everything is based on joy, love and horniness.

    I don't think it is necessary to completely understand everything in ijjjji's map, I think just getting the general idea is good enough so you can get inspired and then create your own thing based on own experiences.
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    Yes! Pictures > Words!

    At any instance where you can represent some part of your personal 'success train' with a picture, do so. You will soon notice a stronger sense of self, or intensity if you like, towards being that specific successful version of yourself, instead of other versions.


    Love your map!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ijjjji View Post
    Yes! Pictures > Words!

    At any instance where you can represent some part of your personal 'success train' with a picture, do so. You will soon notice a stronger sense of self, or intensity if you like, towards being that specific successful version of yourself, instead of other versions.


    Love your map!
    Someone gave me a thought experiment recently that was very interesting. He said to imagine how babies "think" in that first year before they have a language. They cannot narrate anything, they cant label, they cannot have an inner monologue with themselves. Of course everything is all new to them - the body, sensations, feelings, all of that is probably very overwhelming and intense. but imagine that method of their "thinking"....

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    A long article I wrote in masf long long ago. It is about seeing world as outcomes (disconnect) versus seeing only existence (connected). Hopefully it can help explain difference between the two..

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    CHARACTERISTICS OF THE DUALISTIC PLANE
    -Time
    -Judgement
    -Ego/Reputation/Facade
    -Victim/Unforgiveness
    -L-thinking (logic): If, Don't, Either/or,
    -Expectation/Disappointment
    Examples of judgmental duality:
    -Good vs. bad
    -Right vs. Wrong
    -Hard vs. easy
    -Success vs. failure (Outcome)
    -Gain vs. Loss
    -Confusion vs. Clarity
    -Secure vs. Insecurity
    -Happy vs. sad
    -Hope vs. Hopeless
    -Control vs. Helpless
    -Lack vs. Abundance
    -Satisfaction vs. Dissatisfaction (Greed, Envy, Jealousy)
    -Stagnation vs. Flow
    -Separation vs. Unity
    -Boredom vs. Motivation (Goal)

    CHARACTERISTICS OF THE UNIFIED FIELD:
    Now, Bare, Naked, Direct, Undefended, Open, Intuition, Vision, Creation, Allowing, Embrace, experience, indulge, breathe, Vibrancy, Essence, Sense, Gratitude/Love (pure)

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    Reality exists only in the UNIFIED field.

    In our brain, we add the TAINT of dualistic interpretation (good vs. bad) This is ALL mind concepts, and they all serve to distance us from TRULY EXPERIENCING the real life/world.

    All this does is create stress and endless chase towards mind concepts that dont even exist (outcomes). For every 'value' you seek, you create an anti-value that will haunt you.

    Learning to sense the world directly will put you into the unified field. Rather than putting labels like 'bliss' or 'orgasmic' on this state (which would be a return to the dualistic plane), I urge you to JUST experience the world in this way to understand, like described under 'UNIFIED FIELD' above.

    - GATA is also in the UNIFIED field??!!
    - Cos after the 'go' point, there is no longer any either/or BS, right?
    - And obviously, GWMethod is totally in the UNIFIED field, and its this that makes it effective.
    - While APPROACH is 100% in the DUALISTIC PLANE. (Together with many other things that we need to move away from: Value, style, structure etc)
    - Well I had a nice moment when a coworker was annoying the crap out of me with fast talk. By seeking the unified field I ended up ENJOYING the whole ordeal.
    - As you know, I have a whole method for seeking the UF when I run into girls I like. I forgot the name but its the one where you smile repeatedly and feel warm inside.

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    Extract/quote from Dualistic Plane vs. Unified Field article at www.unifying.com. (edit - no longer existing):

    Contrast the Unified Field with the characteristics of the Dualistic plane. Feel the difference in your body, in your emotions and in your mental energy field. Where do you want to vibrate?

    The dualistic plane is where we have mostly learned to live and vibrate. We think and act from this vibration when we aren’t connected to the Unified Field. We vibrate in this dualistic/separate/competitive/fearful/controlling place when we forget and don’t choose the higher experience of what we are wanting. It is impossible to live from the dualistic plane and be fulfilled, happy, healthy and of true service. You/we must choose moment-to-moment as to where to think, act and vibrate.

    Get quiet and ponder the impact of even reading and thinking about the characteristics of the dualistic plane vs. the characteristics of the Unified Field. Where and how do to do experience the difference? Scan your body. Notice how you breathe when reading each list. Where in your body do you tighten, where do you relax? Check out your emotions. What happens? Notice your mental energy field. What happens to your thoughts? Become acutely aware of how you uniquely respond.

    Keep reminding yourself that when you vibrate in the dualistic plane that you are attracting more experiences and evidence that life is struggle, painful, and can’t be trusted.

    Keep remembering to choose the Unified Field. In the choosing, you are opening the way to your natural inheritance (that has never left you). Keep doing your “yes” intentions and your gratitude's. By choosing thoughts that improve your vibration you are helping yourself to step into the Unified Field.
    Learning How to Access the Unified Field

    Goals Set in the Dualistic Plane vs. Goals Set in the Unified Plane:

    Goals from this plane are usually in or about form. They seem easier for the ego/personality to accept. They are experienced as tangible and more able to control. They are of roles and beliefs. From this plane our five senses want to be able to Prove it” When we are abiding in this plane we are playing with concepts, vs. playing in the Unified Field with direct experience. We think we are creating apparent stability, however everything we move to, which we think will be “the answer” dissolves. We live with the feeling that we can’t protect enough and that something else out there will “get us”.

    Look at the goals you have created. Are they in form (dualistic) or essence (Unified Field)? If they are in form, find the essence of why you are wanting the form. What higher essence is inviting you.

    Example: Goal to get a job that pays $100,000 per year (form). Essence intention might be to find the perfect job that is fulfilling, creative, uplifting, on purpose, excites and thrills you, utilizes and expands your talents, is fun, filled with love and humor, and supplies abundance beyond your imaginings.

    Can you see by taking the focus off the form, that your whole system (emotional, mental and physical bodies) can relax? Can you see by getting in touch with the essence of what you are wanting that you won’t then create a situation that may pay you $100,000 per year, and yet have you hating to face all the tasks, people, etc. on a daily basis. Can you see by listing your essence intentions that you build energy and allow the Universe/Unified Field to bring to you the perfect situation.

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